1 00:00:05,390 --> 00:00:09,530 Previously on the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. Hi, how are you? 2 00:00:09,930 --> 00:00:13,950 That is so funny. That's really good. We all got the memo. 3 00:00:14,230 --> 00:00:19,530 I'm best known for my best -selling book, which has given me the nickname, 4 00:00:19,530 --> 00:00:20,349 Money Queen. 5 00:00:20,350 --> 00:00:23,110 My marriage has been eradicated from the Catholic Church. 6 00:00:23,450 --> 00:00:25,650 The letter came to Sutton Brown. 7 00:00:26,090 --> 00:00:27,930 Have you gone on any dates? 8 00:00:29,170 --> 00:00:30,270 Are you dating now? 9 00:00:30,510 --> 00:00:33,950 I'm not. I just haven't been leaving my house. Girl, what? 10 00:00:34,350 --> 00:00:39,250 The truth about if Kyle is seeing somebody, it's like, I'm sorry, are we 11 00:00:39,250 --> 00:00:40,009 or not? 12 00:00:40,010 --> 00:00:43,890 I don't feel like being asked all the time about my private life. I was seeing 13 00:00:43,890 --> 00:00:45,850 someone. Unfortunately, I'm single now. 14 00:00:46,110 --> 00:00:52,390 Since separating from Mo, I was at a very vulnerable place in my life, and I 15 00:00:52,390 --> 00:00:54,210 felt hard for this person. 16 00:00:54,650 --> 00:00:58,950 If it was only me, I would give all the answers I want. Yeah, it's not just 17 00:00:58,950 --> 00:00:59,950 about you. 18 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:06,760 In this town, stars come and go, but diamonds last forever. 19 00:01:07,940 --> 00:01:12,020 I'd die for fashion, but now I'm living for me. 20 00:01:12,580 --> 00:01:17,020 I turn ambition into an art form, and I am the masterpiece. 21 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:22,020 I might live on a main road, but I definitely bring main character energy. 22 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:23,960 I didn't marry into money. 23 00:01:24,260 --> 00:01:26,040 I manifested it. 24 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:29,380 Survival isn't my story. 25 00:01:29,860 --> 00:01:31,180 It's my superpower. 26 00:01:33,150 --> 00:01:37,250 I'm unfiltered, unbothered, and finally, unburdened. 27 00:01:49,310 --> 00:01:51,310 Nico! Are we ready? 28 00:01:51,590 --> 00:01:52,790 Thank you! So pretty. 29 00:01:53,070 --> 00:01:57,710 I'm ready. I'm in my matchmaking bag. I know, you got the roses. I feel like I'm 30 00:01:57,710 --> 00:02:01,130 like the hostess of The Bachelorette. And what are the men called? The 31 00:02:01,130 --> 00:02:02,130 bachelors? 32 00:02:02,780 --> 00:02:05,600 Yes. That's what single men are called. I've never seen The Bachelorette. 33 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,240 I've come to a striking realization. 34 00:02:08,820 --> 00:02:13,720 Almost everybody is single in this friend group. These girls are going 35 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:17,200 it. We've got our questions. I think Dorita's going to be the most 36 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:21,340 Erica, too. No, Erica might scare them. And secretly, I think Kyle is going to 37 00:02:21,340 --> 00:02:22,119 be very nervous. 38 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:25,000 I want all the girls to come out and enjoy themselves. 39 00:02:25,220 --> 00:02:28,700 But I think this might be an opportunity for Kyle to really let her hair down. 40 00:02:28,860 --> 00:02:30,720 Blurt a little. I want to see that side of her. 41 00:02:31,180 --> 00:02:33,820 I think the guys are already, like, comparing their resumes. 42 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:35,960 Look at them. Good to see you. Cheers. 43 00:02:36,180 --> 00:02:38,600 Cheers, fellas. Great to be here with you. 44 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,380 You don't have your cocktails yet? Sorry, bad timing. 45 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:46,540 I went through my contact list and found eligible bachelors that match the 46 00:02:46,540 --> 00:02:51,480 interests of my friends. We are going to describe, like, keywords, okay? 47 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:53,980 Protector. Chivalrous face. 48 00:02:54,340 --> 00:02:56,780 Sexy. Sexy? What does that mean? 49 00:02:57,020 --> 00:02:58,020 Someone who likes sex. 50 00:02:58,030 --> 00:03:02,010 And you can tell by looking at them. I have done my research. 51 00:03:02,230 --> 00:03:03,550 I mean, this is a pretty good group. 52 00:03:03,810 --> 00:03:04,810 They look good, too. 53 00:03:05,430 --> 00:03:07,670 Oh, I'm so glad everybody's here. Hi, 54 00:03:08,790 --> 00:03:10,950 so nice to see you. Thank you for coming. 55 00:03:11,190 --> 00:03:12,370 Hi, how are you? 56 00:03:12,710 --> 00:03:15,230 Hello. Oh, good to see you. 57 00:03:15,730 --> 00:03:16,890 Now, I'll tell you a secret. 58 00:03:17,510 --> 00:03:18,950 These ladies are very nervous. 59 00:03:19,170 --> 00:03:22,170 I can't tell you the group chat with the like, what should I wear? 60 00:03:22,490 --> 00:03:23,490 What should I say? 61 00:03:23,650 --> 00:03:24,650 What am I going to do? 62 00:03:27,340 --> 00:03:31,380 It would be really great if one or all of them found true love tonight. And 63 00:03:31,380 --> 00:03:35,900 if it doesn't happen, I'm still excited for them to flirt a little bit. Because 64 00:03:35,900 --> 00:03:40,600 maybe it'll loosen up the old wires that aren't necessarily clicking all the 65 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:42,540 way. They should be nervous. We are intense. 66 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,040 Look, you better cut it out, okay? 67 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:46,680 Give them a break. 68 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:53,600 I want to look like a normal human being. 69 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:55,800 Right? Because, you know, men get scared. 70 00:03:56,440 --> 00:04:02,520 Yeah. See? I agree. For the face, I think that we keep it young, 71 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:07,880 but not. Could give you a blowjob in the alley, but probably won't. 72 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,519 Okay, we have to make me look very pretty. 73 00:04:16,980 --> 00:04:19,040 We're going to make you look extra snatched. 74 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:29,680 I think I need a Coca -Cola. 75 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:36,940 I am going to struggle tonight. 76 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:47,920 I need a beverage now. Where are these ladies? 77 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:58,480 Why are you giggling already? 78 00:04:58,680 --> 00:04:59,860 I don't know. I feel really weird. 79 00:05:00,100 --> 00:05:01,100 That might feel weird. I feel weird. 80 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:02,720 I don't know. 81 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,240 How about have a seat right there? Because they are over there. 82 00:05:05,500 --> 00:05:06,399 Oh, no. 83 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:07,400 I know. 84 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:13,960 If you make me take my shoes off. No, no, no. You don't have to. 85 00:05:14,180 --> 00:05:15,220 This is the first time. 86 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:20,560 I don't know what to make of Kyle's single state. Is she single because she 87 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:24,140 accepted her separation from Moe? For somebody who's nervous, you certainly 88 00:05:24,140 --> 00:05:25,140 don't look it. 89 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:29,860 Is she single because she isn't dating anyone at all? Why did you bring the 90 00:05:29,860 --> 00:05:33,180 expensive bag? See, this is clearly signaling your high maintenance. 91 00:05:33,420 --> 00:05:36,280 Oh, my God. Don't mess with me. Don't. 92 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:42,360 Wow. 93 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:44,320 You are a goddess. 94 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:45,519 Come on in. 95 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:47,660 We all look like we're going to a funeral, you guys. 96 00:05:53,380 --> 00:05:55,480 No, she is not. Oh, my God. 97 00:05:55,980 --> 00:05:56,980 Everybody's wearing black. 98 00:05:57,100 --> 00:05:59,660 Everybody's wearing black. Hello, beautiful. 99 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:01,360 Oh, my gosh. 100 00:06:02,700 --> 00:06:04,700 Everybody's wearing black. Let's see what Sutton has on. Oh, 101 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:07,020 my God. 102 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:11,640 The key is you can't look like you tried too hard because that reads desperate 103 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:12,239 and thirsty. 104 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:14,040 Don't look like you spent three hours getting dressed. 105 00:06:14,420 --> 00:06:18,820 Like, oh, I just threw this on. I look like the maid that's going to. 106 00:06:19,260 --> 00:06:22,540 Bend over and get it. I do think if you wear a little black dress on a first 107 00:06:22,540 --> 00:06:24,200 date, you're saying I want to have sex with you. 108 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,240 Oh, my God. She's wearing black. 109 00:06:28,260 --> 00:06:31,760 Everybody's in black. I cannot even believe you. Do we look like we're going 110 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:33,180 a funeral? That's what I just said. 111 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:36,340 Our subconscious is talking right now. 112 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:41,180 We do not look like a group of women that are looking to find a date. We're 113 00:06:41,180 --> 00:06:44,600 dressed in black like we just came from some sort of witch convention. 114 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:47,820 I think it just says where we all are in our lives is black. 115 00:06:48,350 --> 00:06:50,510 The black cloud over all of us. 116 00:06:51,110 --> 00:06:56,050 We have to get out of our heads. She happens to know that they're all good 117 00:06:56,190 --> 00:06:57,190 They're all successful. 118 00:06:57,410 --> 00:06:58,490 They're all very nice. 119 00:06:58,770 --> 00:07:00,270 Don't ask for any dick pics. 120 00:07:00,910 --> 00:07:03,290 What? That is horrible. 121 00:07:04,310 --> 00:07:07,510 I've gotten enough of those dick pics in my DM. 122 00:07:07,790 --> 00:07:11,550 Do they really think you're going to be like, oh my God, that's so great. Hi. 123 00:07:12,870 --> 00:07:14,170 Can we go say hi to them? 124 00:07:15,370 --> 00:07:16,370 Let's go. 125 00:07:16,630 --> 00:07:17,630 Let's go, girls. 126 00:07:17,950 --> 00:07:18,950 Let's go. 127 00:07:20,050 --> 00:07:21,210 I'm rallying the troops. 128 00:07:21,450 --> 00:07:23,450 Are you taking your bag? I'm wearing my sunglasses. 129 00:07:23,910 --> 00:07:24,269 Oh, that's so rude. 130 00:07:24,270 --> 00:07:25,290 Is that rude? 131 00:07:25,690 --> 00:07:26,689 No. Yes. 132 00:07:26,690 --> 00:07:29,850 It's rude, but they're Rachel's old glasses. Hello, everyone. 133 00:07:30,910 --> 00:07:32,150 Hi. Okay. 134 00:07:32,350 --> 00:07:36,690 Good job, Dorit. Hi, guys. I'm so proud of her. I'm Dorit. Hi, Ben. Pleasure. 135 00:07:36,830 --> 00:07:37,769 Hey, Dorit. I'm Chase. 136 00:07:37,770 --> 00:07:38,770 Nice to meet you. 137 00:07:39,450 --> 00:07:40,389 What happened? 138 00:07:40,390 --> 00:07:45,430 No! I didn't realize how many of these women... 139 00:07:45,770 --> 00:07:50,550 are so socially awkward. Come on. I hate this. Just kidding. 140 00:07:50,910 --> 00:07:52,610 Kyle. Erica. 141 00:07:53,050 --> 00:07:54,750 Cheers. Weird Tuesday. 142 00:07:55,230 --> 00:07:59,310 Sutton. Okay, well, I knew Sutton was. It's itching because I have neuropathy. 143 00:08:00,010 --> 00:08:01,070 It's going to bother me. 144 00:08:01,310 --> 00:08:02,770 Yeah. Hey. Rick. 145 00:08:03,050 --> 00:08:04,770 Greg. Nice to meet you. Rick. 146 00:08:05,210 --> 00:08:06,210 Nice to meet you. 147 00:08:06,410 --> 00:08:07,410 I'm Rachel. 148 00:08:07,570 --> 00:08:08,469 Rachel. Erica. 149 00:08:08,470 --> 00:08:09,550 Hi. Hi. 150 00:08:09,790 --> 00:08:11,570 Nice to meet you. How are you? Nice to meet you. How are you doing? 151 00:08:11,970 --> 00:08:12,970 Hi. 152 00:08:13,130 --> 00:08:15,570 What was your name? Rachel. Hey, Rachel. Nice to meet you. 153 00:08:15,970 --> 00:08:17,690 Rachel. Rachel. Nice to meet you. 154 00:08:18,090 --> 00:08:20,290 Wait, does this feel like a receiving line, you guys? 155 00:08:20,730 --> 00:08:24,890 Fun fact. I actually won the biggest flirt award when I was six years old in 156 00:08:24,890 --> 00:08:26,130 camp. A ribbon and everything. 157 00:08:26,830 --> 00:08:27,830 Where is your accent? 158 00:08:27,890 --> 00:08:32,270 Australian. Yeah, accent has two girls already. I get it. Always, always works, 159 00:08:32,309 --> 00:08:32,929 doesn't it? 160 00:08:32,929 --> 00:08:37,710 They asked us to choose a husband to marry on our camp bus. 161 00:08:37,929 --> 00:08:40,549 And you know who I picked? My 18 -year -old counselor. 162 00:08:41,110 --> 00:08:42,110 Do you have a drink? 163 00:08:42,169 --> 00:08:45,010 No, but I think I need one. Oh, my God, I feel so awkward. Hold on one second. 164 00:08:45,230 --> 00:08:46,570 I got to go to the bar. 165 00:08:46,790 --> 00:08:50,160 What? I've never seen this side of Erica before. Where's the woman who was 166 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:54,420 twirling around on stage, making people nervous when she walks in the room? 167 00:08:54,660 --> 00:08:56,360 Probably got a whips and chains somewhere. 168 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:57,720 Where is she? 169 00:08:57,800 --> 00:08:58,800 Can I have a cocktail? 170 00:08:59,060 --> 00:09:00,060 Yes. I don't know. 171 00:09:00,140 --> 00:09:01,180 Do you want to take a shot? 172 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:02,400 Do you want to take a shot? 173 00:09:02,460 --> 00:09:03,520 No, I don't need a shot. 174 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:07,920 Erica Jane can do anything. She can talk to anybody, splits on stage, run around 175 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:09,380 in a costume. But Erica? 176 00:09:10,340 --> 00:09:11,920 is very awkward. 177 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:16,320 I thought you had, like, some icebreaker activity. I do. But we lost one. I 178 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,780 know, we lost one. Or we could just let it do it the old -fashioned way. You 179 00:09:18,780 --> 00:09:19,479 lost somebody? 180 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:21,060 Yes. How long have you been single? 181 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:22,660 Like a week. No kidding. 182 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:27,440 A year. About four hours? Yeah. Okay, that's long enough for me. No. Well, I 183 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:28,440 guess a year. 184 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:34,940 I'm not going to suggest that I'm emotionally in the best place to date 185 00:09:34,940 --> 00:09:39,480 now. I've never heard a lemon referred to as the carcass when it's done. 186 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:42,940 Listen, it's just a drink that I like. It's clean. 187 00:09:43,220 --> 00:09:45,140 It's easy. Is that how you would describe yourself? 188 00:09:46,860 --> 00:09:47,860 Not easy. 189 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:48,920 I'm really not easy. 190 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:51,340 I mean, but she is. 191 00:09:51,680 --> 00:09:53,480 Make sure you tell her I told you that. I will. 192 00:09:53,980 --> 00:09:58,440 I'm a little out of practice, but that doesn't mean it's gone. I know I'm a 193 00:09:58,440 --> 00:09:59,440 flirt. 194 00:10:00,680 --> 00:10:03,380 Yeah, it's working, right? Oh, good. I got everybody's attention. 195 00:10:03,700 --> 00:10:04,639 Well, welcome. 196 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:07,060 I'm so glad everybody was able to come over. 197 00:10:07,260 --> 00:10:07,959 So welcome. 198 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:08,839 Cheers to you. 199 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:09,840 Cheers. Yes. 200 00:10:10,140 --> 00:10:13,680 So we have some stations where the ladies will sit. 201 00:10:13,980 --> 00:10:17,460 Some questions that I've written, but you are free to ask your own question. 202 00:10:17,860 --> 00:10:20,420 And then we'll keep going around and around until everybody's met everybody. 203 00:10:20,820 --> 00:10:25,900 I'm game. Yes. Okay, very good. Kyle, you can sit here. Okay. Erica, you're 204 00:10:25,900 --> 00:10:26,900 going to go inside. 205 00:10:27,500 --> 00:10:28,880 Sutton, you're going inside too. 206 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:33,200 I've never done anything like this. I'd be more comfortable, like, standing on 207 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:37,800 stage with no clothes. I would like to gouge out my own eyeballs, but I'm going 208 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:39,140 to go with a smile on my face. 209 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:42,980 Let me start my clock. 210 00:10:43,340 --> 00:10:44,340 Okay, here we go. 211 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:47,400 Um, hey? 212 00:10:48,020 --> 00:10:49,020 Oh. 213 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:56,380 Let me start my clock. 214 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:58,480 Okay, here we go. Have you been ready? 215 00:10:59,959 --> 00:11:00,959 Well, yeah. 216 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:04,620 That was a little... So you were a lawyer, too? 217 00:11:04,940 --> 00:11:08,900 I was, but I'm still active with a bar, but I'm not pregnant. Thank God. What do 218 00:11:08,900 --> 00:11:11,780 you do for fun? No, I don't think I've had that in a very long time, so I've 219 00:11:11,780 --> 00:11:14,300 almost forgot. You're such a sexy dress. How could you not have fun? 220 00:11:14,540 --> 00:11:17,180 Well, thank you. Are you more of a dominant or a submissive? 221 00:11:17,500 --> 00:11:19,900 I've learned to be a bit more dominant in life. 222 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:22,800 I think the question means sexually. 223 00:11:23,180 --> 00:11:24,180 Oh. 224 00:11:25,060 --> 00:11:26,360 I've been on a lot of bad dates. 225 00:11:26,590 --> 00:11:30,070 And, you know, I did go on that one date. It was just all about the mother. 226 00:11:30,590 --> 00:11:34,710 Mom still is in the house, but I've been working from home, so I can still be 227 00:11:34,710 --> 00:11:40,010 mom. I'm the only guy whose mother tried to pull the what happens in Vegas stays 228 00:11:40,010 --> 00:11:41,010 in Vegas rule. 229 00:11:41,110 --> 00:11:42,110 Oh. 230 00:11:42,230 --> 00:11:45,170 I kind of have this fearless factor when it comes to dating. 231 00:11:45,690 --> 00:11:47,690 So show me what you got. Let's do this. 232 00:11:47,930 --> 00:11:50,470 I started Comic -Con. So if you're ever into superheroes. 233 00:11:50,990 --> 00:11:51,990 No. Oh. 234 00:11:52,620 --> 00:11:55,020 I can't. I did a lot not in Los Angeles. 235 00:11:55,220 --> 00:11:56,039 Why is that? 236 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,040 Girls here are pretty bad. 237 00:11:58,260 --> 00:12:00,640 Where do you live? You live on this side? 238 00:12:01,060 --> 00:12:03,080 I think we're on the west side, right? 239 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:04,800 I think we're on the east side now. 240 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:08,460 Okay, so I don't know what side I live on. 241 00:12:09,060 --> 00:12:10,920 Oh. I live in the valley. 242 00:12:11,180 --> 00:12:12,980 Okay. Do you know where that is? That way. 243 00:12:14,680 --> 00:12:16,080 Okay, who do you think is amazing? 244 00:12:16,580 --> 00:12:19,140 Maybe like Led Zeppelin on the Rolling Stones and that's like it. I don't know. 245 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:20,280 Chris Martin? What's up? 246 00:12:21,439 --> 00:12:22,439 Coldplay sucks. 247 00:12:22,560 --> 00:12:25,480 What? Coldplay sucks, dude. White women love Coldplay. 248 00:12:25,700 --> 00:12:30,020 What? When I was younger, I was always in love with a guy that I shouldn't be 249 00:12:30,020 --> 00:12:31,960 love with. What I've realized is I'm still her. 250 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:39,640 I am still her. I am still the girl that is attracted to a very certain kind of 251 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:45,100 person that is not the guy that probably everybody wants to set me up with. Oh, 252 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:45,679 my God. 253 00:12:45,680 --> 00:12:49,020 This is so much harder than I thought. It is? Yes. Is it a little stressful? It 254 00:12:49,020 --> 00:12:50,020 is so stressful. 255 00:12:50,340 --> 00:12:53,860 I'm a real estate agent, by the way. My husband would die right now while I'm 256 00:12:53,860 --> 00:12:54,860 separated. 257 00:12:55,100 --> 00:12:59,880 We did a deal. I'm sure you did. Yeah. I honestly cannot get away from Mel. 258 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:03,220 I mean, I wouldn't be surprised if he was here tonight as one of the 259 00:13:03,220 --> 00:13:04,860 backsliders. I mean, he does good deals. 260 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:09,280 Have you been married? I married a stranger in Las Vegas for a day. It was 261 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:09,879 bucket list. 262 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:12,960 I was just going to say it was a bucket list. It was a bucket list. Because it's 263 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:14,160 completely legal in your country. 264 00:13:14,580 --> 00:13:15,549 You can just... 265 00:13:15,550 --> 00:13:16,489 You get married. 266 00:13:16,490 --> 00:13:20,550 When I turn the charm on, I'm not the girl that's like, oh, oh, 267 00:13:21,770 --> 00:13:24,290 wow. Oh, you look good. Have you been working out? 268 00:13:24,490 --> 00:13:26,650 I'm more of the, it's in the eyes. 269 00:13:27,670 --> 00:13:29,690 Maybe a little hair flip. 270 00:13:30,330 --> 00:13:33,550 Anyway, so, seductive. 271 00:13:34,650 --> 00:13:35,830 I've been asking the guys. 272 00:13:36,130 --> 00:13:40,130 Everybody loves Dorit. Yeah, look at them right now. I have to tell you. Oh, 273 00:13:40,130 --> 00:13:43,670 that's. Yeah. Thank you, my darling. But I think everybody likes Sebastian. 274 00:13:44,410 --> 00:13:45,450 Yeah, I like Sebastian. 275 00:13:45,830 --> 00:13:49,490 Yes, everybody likes Sebastian. Go back. But look at them. This is a match made. 276 00:13:49,810 --> 00:13:52,270 They both have accents. That's how I knew it was going to work. 277 00:13:52,510 --> 00:13:53,770 People will say I'm loquacious. 278 00:13:54,310 --> 00:13:55,310 What a word. 279 00:13:55,490 --> 00:13:58,850 Were you like a big comic fan? Yeah, I grew up collecting sports cards and 280 00:13:58,850 --> 00:14:01,730 books. I love sports cards. What kind of sports cards are we talking about? 281 00:14:01,750 --> 00:14:02,709 Baseball, basketball. 282 00:14:02,710 --> 00:14:04,250 Oh, cars. Oh, yeah. 283 00:14:04,450 --> 00:14:05,810 C -A -R -D -F. Yeah. 284 00:14:06,910 --> 00:14:08,030 I have zero game. 285 00:14:08,570 --> 00:14:11,470 I can't small talk. I don't know how to do it. 286 00:14:11,950 --> 00:14:13,230 Wait, you're in the law, right? 287 00:14:14,020 --> 00:14:15,980 Yeah, but I do other things too. You're a slimy weasel. 288 00:14:16,680 --> 00:14:18,780 Sutton has a lot more game than I do. 289 00:14:19,060 --> 00:14:22,360 Soft and feminine and southern and, you know, ha. 290 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:27,200 Your accent's great. Just a hint of Georgia. But it's more if I go home or 291 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:30,520 talk to my mother too long. Listen, when I'm on the phone with my family back 292 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,960 home, New York comes right out. It'll just come right back. I've been 293 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:36,040 to work in baseball. I've represented a bunch of players. 294 00:14:36,340 --> 00:14:38,880 My apologies if you were halfway through your conversation. 295 00:14:39,220 --> 00:14:43,100 Okay, ma 'am. Time is flying by. I know, when you're having fun. 296 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,400 I like Rick. He is easy to talk to. 297 00:14:45,620 --> 00:14:47,620 He seems interested in me. 298 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:49,520 He has potential, this Rick. 299 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:53,140 Our time is up. Okay. Now, we're all going to get back together. 300 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:55,080 Sure. Okay. So we can go back in here. 301 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:59,660 Okay, what's happening, you guys? Well, everybody, I would like to say goodnight 302 00:14:59,660 --> 00:15:01,000 to our gentlemen. 303 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:02,440 Goodnight, guys. 304 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:05,680 It was nice meeting all y 'all. 305 00:15:06,020 --> 00:15:07,020 Wait, wait, this is me. 306 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:11,320 All right, done. So let me know. All right, I'll let you know. It's in your 307 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:12,320 court. 308 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:13,720 Still got it. 309 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:15,080 Obviously. 310 00:15:15,220 --> 00:15:19,380 I love both, and there's nothing I won't do for her or with her. I need fire 311 00:15:19,380 --> 00:15:24,820 pit. But, like, I knew full well there was 0 % chance I was meeting a guy at a 312 00:15:24,820 --> 00:15:25,820 speed dating event. 313 00:15:25,900 --> 00:15:29,640 Dory, was that your first, like, meet new guys moment? And? 314 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:31,160 I feel like we did great. 315 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:34,320 Oh, I'm very good in this situation. By the way, I feel like you were fully 316 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:35,900 rolling with each guy, right? 317 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:38,020 Tonight was a boost of confidence. 318 00:15:38,460 --> 00:15:39,840 It felt like... 319 00:15:40,140 --> 00:15:43,740 The feminine, flirty, fun Dorit was here. 320 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:45,480 And it felt good. 321 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:51,560 Who was our favorite guy? The Aussie guy was great. It was really fun. I liked 322 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,720 Rick. Did he give you his car? Because he gave me his car. Okay. 323 00:15:56,560 --> 00:16:00,680 Okay. I'm just saying, your attorney husband didn't work out so well. 324 00:16:03,300 --> 00:16:06,920 Coming up. In order to be friends. 325 00:16:07,420 --> 00:16:10,380 I want to know the information so that I can also be helpful. 326 00:16:10,580 --> 00:16:12,280 Why don't you ask what you really want to ask? 327 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:23,500 Okay, okay. Who is our favorite guy? I like Rick. 328 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:26,100 Did he give you his card? Because he gave me. Okay. 329 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:28,640 Your attorney husband didn't work out so well. 330 00:16:32,270 --> 00:16:35,470 I'm about to do something really important. She's going to throw it in 331 00:16:35,610 --> 00:16:40,590 No. In the spirit of kindness and being like a good friend, truthfully, this is 332 00:16:40,590 --> 00:16:41,169 for you. 333 00:16:41,170 --> 00:16:42,170 Whoa. 334 00:16:43,010 --> 00:16:46,930 It's taken a long time for Sutton and I to get to a good place. And Rick seems 335 00:16:46,930 --> 00:16:47,930 like a really nice guy. 336 00:16:48,210 --> 00:16:51,230 Yeah, Sutton, enjoy him. I'm going to give the lawyer thing a rest. 337 00:16:51,750 --> 00:16:52,750 Case is smooth. 338 00:16:53,930 --> 00:16:59,950 Kyle, do you feel that you are actively looking to meet someone? 339 00:17:01,180 --> 00:17:02,180 Of course not. 340 00:17:02,740 --> 00:17:03,740 I mean, I'm not. 341 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:06,599 What do you mean, of course not? What do you mean, of course not? No, I'm not. I 342 00:17:06,599 --> 00:17:08,359 mean, you're not actively looking for anybody. 343 00:17:09,460 --> 00:17:10,560 I'm not three years in. 344 00:17:10,980 --> 00:17:13,000 I mean, like, is that what you want? 345 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:19,260 I would be looking for a life partner. Like, I want to get married again. You 346 00:17:19,260 --> 00:17:22,220 want to be married again? I think I would want to get married again. Really? 347 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:26,280 Dorit, do you want to come talk with me for, like, five minutes? 348 00:17:27,079 --> 00:17:28,079 Pardon? 349 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:30,460 Come here. Come talk with me for a minute. I want to talk to you. 350 00:17:30,860 --> 00:17:32,340 Oh, okay. Go ahead. 351 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:36,560 I just want to catch up with you and how you're doing and PK and all of that. 352 00:17:37,100 --> 00:17:41,560 Sutton, do you want to sit here? Yeah. Is that okay? Have a seat. I was asking 353 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:44,800 Doreen what's going on. I said I was just trying to check in on her and see 354 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:45,800 the kids are. 355 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:47,000 Did they go to Florida? 356 00:17:47,300 --> 00:17:49,880 My kids are supposed to go to Florida with their grandparents. 357 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:55,240 And PK is now, I got a letter today from the lawyer saying that he's going to 358 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:56,240 block it. 359 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:58,140 They did go to Florida. 360 00:17:58,720 --> 00:17:59,960 So the kids are having a good time? 361 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:04,180 They are having the greatest time ever. What are you doing now that they're not? 362 00:18:04,260 --> 00:18:05,219 Are you resting? 363 00:18:05,220 --> 00:18:07,380 The best thing that you can do is take care of yourself. 364 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:12,000 Yes. You have to. I know. I have to. And you don't want to use it against you. 365 00:18:12,220 --> 00:18:13,460 You know what I mean? Exactly. 366 00:18:14,180 --> 00:18:16,120 That's, by the way, that's by design. 367 00:18:16,660 --> 00:18:20,620 Here's the thing. When you're going through a divorce, your state of mind is 368 00:18:20,620 --> 00:18:21,620 like a big deal. 369 00:18:21,860 --> 00:18:25,620 Anything and everything will be used against you to make you look. 370 00:18:26,620 --> 00:18:30,920 Not the best. So you have to be careful what you say, how you say it, who you 371 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:34,020 say it to, where you're hanging out, who you're hanging out with, where you're 372 00:18:34,020 --> 00:18:34,919 spending money. 373 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,540 And it's a long road. Yes. 374 00:18:38,120 --> 00:18:40,840 Dudes can get away with a hell of a lot more than mothers. 375 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:46,460 The great news is this. You will come ashore, and you will survive this. Yeah, 376 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:47,940 you will. And your children will, too. 377 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:52,560 And all for the better, you know? You just have to get through it, and it 378 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:53,880 and I'm really sorry. 379 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:55,960 Yeah, it does suck. 380 00:18:56,440 --> 00:19:01,240 This is really nice to see a different side of Sutton. She's talking to me from 381 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:02,240 her heart. 382 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:05,540 I know she has the experience, and it feels genuine. 383 00:19:05,740 --> 00:19:12,620 I completely sympathize with Dorit. I see a little bit of myself in this 384 00:19:12,620 --> 00:19:17,620 broken wing that she's walking around with. It's so sad. 385 00:19:18,140 --> 00:19:20,200 It's just the hardest thing to watch. 386 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:24,420 I want to be a good friend to everybody. 387 00:19:24,660 --> 00:19:25,439 Yeah, of course. 388 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:28,480 You know? I think Kyle is somebody that I'm like, OK. 389 00:19:28,940 --> 00:19:30,500 I'm like peeling back the onion. 390 00:19:30,740 --> 00:19:31,740 Do you like anybody? 391 00:19:31,940 --> 00:19:35,560 Was there anything that sparked? If not, I'm like, OK, tell me, girl, what you 392 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:37,440 want. I mean, gosh, my gosh. 393 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:39,320 You know, I'm not the only single one here. 394 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:41,340 You don't want to, like, just be. 395 00:19:41,980 --> 00:19:46,480 No, no. You are not a one -night -only girl. No. So we got to find somebody 396 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:47,480 substance. 397 00:19:47,740 --> 00:19:48,920 How many times have you been in love? 398 00:19:49,350 --> 00:19:52,170 Have I been in love? How many times have you been in love? Like three. 399 00:19:52,970 --> 00:19:53,829 Three times? 400 00:19:53,830 --> 00:19:55,590 Three. Yeah, in my life. 401 00:19:56,450 --> 00:19:58,390 How many have you been in love? Four. How many times? 402 00:19:59,110 --> 00:20:00,290 Three. Yeah. 403 00:20:00,610 --> 00:20:01,850 Have you found love again? 404 00:20:03,070 --> 00:20:04,530 Yeah. Okay, yeah. 405 00:20:04,770 --> 00:20:05,770 Well, that's a good feeling. 406 00:20:06,510 --> 00:20:11,510 Yeah, I have loved somebody, but... Okay, but now you don't. 407 00:20:11,890 --> 00:20:16,950 No, now I'm just figuring it out. No, now I'm just, I mean, I did, but now 408 00:20:16,950 --> 00:20:20,510 I'm... Now I'm on my own again, so. Okay. Okay. 409 00:20:20,790 --> 00:20:24,930 Yeah. Boze is acting like she's never heard anything or seen anything, and 410 00:20:24,930 --> 00:20:26,250 asking me all these questions. 411 00:20:26,750 --> 00:20:28,610 And I'm like, okay, Boze. 412 00:20:28,910 --> 00:20:31,290 Was it by choice not to be in love now? 413 00:20:31,710 --> 00:20:32,710 By your choice? 414 00:20:33,030 --> 00:20:34,170 No, it's not. 415 00:20:37,770 --> 00:20:38,770 It's just complicated. 416 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:42,460 I think it's been really challenging for Kyle to be vulnerable. 417 00:20:42,780 --> 00:20:47,060 You said that you had never before questioned your sexuality, but when 418 00:20:47,060 --> 00:20:51,020 speculation went into overdrive, you would even talk to your daughters about 419 00:20:51,260 --> 00:20:54,760 Just a really proud moment for me as a mom, how my daughters reacted. 420 00:20:55,080 --> 00:21:00,380 They supported you. Oh, my gosh. Like, beyond. And it was a really 421 00:21:00,380 --> 00:21:02,180 uncomfortable, hard conversation to have. 422 00:21:02,500 --> 00:21:07,240 But I'm really glad that she's at least sharing a little bit with me now. 423 00:21:07,690 --> 00:21:11,850 Because I want to be there for her. I want to be able to support in every way 424 00:21:11,850 --> 00:21:12,990 that I can as a friend. 425 00:21:13,510 --> 00:21:17,150 I told you, I'm a girl's girl. I want to, like, be in everybody's business. 426 00:21:17,310 --> 00:21:20,230 You're a lady. Not because I want to be in the business, but because I'm like... 427 00:21:20,230 --> 00:21:24,630 But in order to be friends... Why don't you ask what you really want to ask? 428 00:21:24,830 --> 00:21:25,830 What's that? 429 00:21:26,050 --> 00:21:28,830 What do you think I want to ask? I don't know. I could go Brad. I could go 430 00:21:28,830 --> 00:21:29,830 Angelina. 431 00:21:30,450 --> 00:21:31,650 That's what you want to say, right? 432 00:21:33,150 --> 00:21:34,150 I mean... Is that serious? 433 00:21:34,750 --> 00:21:40,030 Can we go Brad or Angelina? No, I mean, I'm like half joking, but not fully 434 00:21:40,030 --> 00:21:44,570 joking. Open. I don't know. Listen, I've learned a lot about myself. I think 435 00:21:44,570 --> 00:21:50,610 gender doesn't matter. I think it is a connection with a soul connection. 436 00:21:51,030 --> 00:21:56,670 I think my biggest worry after Mo and I separated was really that I was going to 437 00:21:56,670 --> 00:21:58,510 maybe be alone one day. 438 00:21:59,950 --> 00:22:03,950 And then to find someone that you have a lot in common with. 439 00:22:04,590 --> 00:22:11,250 and you can laugh with and have fun is exciting for me because I proved to 440 00:22:11,250 --> 00:22:16,090 myself, oh, you know, I actually can meet someone after a marriage of this 441 00:22:16,090 --> 00:22:20,730 years. I've always been attracted to men, you know, like tall, dark, and 442 00:22:20,730 --> 00:22:22,830 handsome. Could that apply to women? 443 00:22:23,770 --> 00:22:27,450 I also felt nervous about, do I go out with somebody? 444 00:22:27,650 --> 00:22:29,990 Like, what is Mo going to think about that? 445 00:22:30,310 --> 00:22:32,010 What are the girls going to think about that? 446 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,020 What is the public going to think about that? 447 00:22:35,780 --> 00:22:39,460 I don't really know. Kyle, to be honest with you, I actually don't think you 448 00:22:39,460 --> 00:22:41,820 have to know. You have been with Moe forever. 449 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:47,560 She said 30 years. And I think it's okay to now be like I'm freely being me and 450 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:50,040 whatever that feels like and whoever I connect with the most. 451 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:55,580 I've gone through so much in these past few years, and it really has changed my 452 00:22:55,580 --> 00:23:01,460 perspective on life and how I want to live while I am sad. 453 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:05,460 about the relationship, I'm also really grateful. 454 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:10,820 You get lost in being a wife and a mother and you can kind of forget about 455 00:23:10,820 --> 00:23:11,820 you are. 456 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:16,440 And I learned a lot about myself in that time. 457 00:23:17,620 --> 00:23:20,740 I'm going to go back in my contact list. No, no. 458 00:23:21,340 --> 00:23:22,219 You know what? 459 00:23:22,220 --> 00:23:24,240 I'm a fake kind of person. 460 00:23:27,060 --> 00:23:28,060 Coming up. 461 00:23:28,120 --> 00:23:30,100 Maybe I'll change my name back to Brown. 462 00:23:30,510 --> 00:23:32,290 I dropped my married name with Dayla. 463 00:23:32,590 --> 00:23:34,490 It's like my last little thread. 464 00:23:34,810 --> 00:23:37,750 It is, but you're not married to him anymore. 465 00:24:11,140 --> 00:24:12,500 You guys can absolutely. 466 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:16,280 Oh, Shoshi, do you want to paint a dragon with KK? She's right behind you. 467 00:24:17,460 --> 00:24:18,620 She's literally right next to you. 468 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,740 Oh, hi. You want to paint a dragon? 469 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:23,840 KK wants to help. 470 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:25,159 Let's go over here. 471 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:26,160 Here, Mama, help. 472 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:30,320 You want me to help you get the stuff? I'll show you. I've never done that 473 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:31,219 activity before. 474 00:24:31,220 --> 00:24:32,700 Hey, KK, look at my side. 475 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:37,100 What if we both paint on both sides and we work together collaboratively? 476 00:24:37,610 --> 00:24:41,470 How did where you grew up in Oklahoma differ from where you grew up in 477 00:24:44,770 --> 00:24:48,970 Okay, so I come from pretty humble beginnings. 478 00:24:49,170 --> 00:24:52,730 We didn't really have a lot. On Friday nights, I used to hang out at Walmart. 479 00:24:53,130 --> 00:24:54,350 We would, like, go walk. 480 00:24:54,670 --> 00:24:55,850 I would walk around Walmart. 481 00:24:56,310 --> 00:24:58,010 Do you want to go jet skiing with Dada tomorrow? 482 00:24:58,330 --> 00:25:00,350 We're going jet skiing in the morning. Of course, of course. 483 00:25:00,870 --> 00:25:04,090 They will never grasp that the reason I have them in a stroller. 484 00:25:04,570 --> 00:25:07,330 walking around Beverly Hills, like, getting ice cream and going to lunch or 485 00:25:07,330 --> 00:25:11,990 whatever, is because I dreamed this for them. Like, we walk the street that I 486 00:25:11,990 --> 00:25:14,510 watched on Clueless. Like, that, you know? 487 00:25:15,070 --> 00:25:19,430 It looks like I'm going to Disney on Monday. Daddy has a new project at 488 00:25:19,430 --> 00:25:22,050 World. Sunday, you have water polo, correct? 489 00:25:22,730 --> 00:25:25,790 At 11, yeah, I'm going to take Liam. And I'm going to try to go to Pilates that 490 00:25:25,790 --> 00:25:26,790 day during nap time. 491 00:25:26,950 --> 00:25:33,910 Eddie is my partner and fiance and lover. We met in 2019, and so we've been 492 00:25:33,910 --> 00:25:34,910 together five years. 493 00:25:35,230 --> 00:25:36,470 Eddie is in construction. 494 00:25:37,030 --> 00:25:38,130 Isn't he so cute, though? 495 00:25:39,150 --> 00:25:40,330 He's, like, so cute. 496 00:25:40,530 --> 00:25:44,650 Okay, before Daddy proposed, like, I kept having the dream that he got me a 497 00:25:44,650 --> 00:25:46,470 with the Smart and Final logo on it. 498 00:25:48,730 --> 00:25:50,390 Get your Oklahoma ass out of here. 499 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:54,180 So once Eddie and I were living together, he asked me what I wanted, 500 00:25:54,180 --> 00:25:59,480 priorities were. I was about to turn 36, and I remember telling him that there 501 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:03,060 was an expiration date on my ovaries more than there was an expiration date 502 00:26:03,060 --> 00:26:05,820 my ring finger, and I thought we should get to making babies. 503 00:26:08,180 --> 00:26:12,500 It did take a while for us to get engaged, but then Daddy crushed it. He 504 00:26:12,500 --> 00:26:15,600 the exact ring that had been on my vision board, literally. 505 00:26:15,860 --> 00:26:20,280 Okay. As a financial empowerment... teacher and coach i'm the embodiment of 506 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:25,960 everything i teach i'm my biggest testimonial i remember someone who was 507 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:29,420 of my courses and they're like of course amanda wouldn't come through just 508 00:26:29,420 --> 00:26:33,400 manifesting a man amanda comes through manifesting a whole ass family i'm 509 00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:37,940 thankful you cook or else nobody would eat no 510 00:27:04,830 --> 00:27:08,810 Hello. You are so sweet. Hi, you look so gorgeous. 511 00:27:09,110 --> 00:27:13,110 Hi. I feel so casual. I'm so sorry. You look gorgeous. Why are you? I'm in 512 00:27:13,110 --> 00:27:16,530 jeans. Okay, we're both in jeans. Yeah, I love your house. Thank you. I'll have 513 00:27:16,530 --> 00:27:17,530 a penchant for White House. 514 00:27:17,790 --> 00:27:21,750 I love White House. Me too. You drink white wine. Yes. I brought you some 515 00:27:21,750 --> 00:27:23,750 wine. And I love this. I love Poulet Fusse. 516 00:27:23,970 --> 00:27:27,830 Yes. I do. Thank you so much. No, you're welcome. I know Sutton because we 517 00:27:27,830 --> 00:27:28,830 have... 518 00:27:29,659 --> 00:27:34,060 like, some mutual friends. So I end up seeing her at different, like, events 519 00:27:34,060 --> 00:27:38,140 lunches and parties when I do that sort of circuit, you know, around the 520 00:27:38,140 --> 00:27:39,119 holidays especially. 521 00:27:39,120 --> 00:27:40,120 I always see her at cafes. 522 00:27:40,780 --> 00:27:45,660 But she was always someone who was very, like, friendly and outgoing, invited me 523 00:27:45,660 --> 00:27:48,480 to all these parties and things like that. I just had never gotten close with 524 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:51,020 her. Wait, I feel like we have so much to discuss. 525 00:27:52,100 --> 00:27:53,079 How's it going? 526 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,980 I mean, can we talk about Bo's house? 527 00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:00,020 I can't believe we just did, like, a speed dating night. Like, I didn't know 528 00:28:00,020 --> 00:28:01,080 that there was a name for this. 529 00:28:01,360 --> 00:28:02,880 Did you think any of the guys were cute? 530 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:08,560 Did you think the guy with the hair, I feel like he was, like, good -looking 531 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:09,940 cute. Yeah. Right? 532 00:28:10,180 --> 00:28:12,020 Yeah. Felt like not that. 533 00:28:14,940 --> 00:28:15,940 It's all relative. 534 00:28:16,820 --> 00:28:21,460 You know, I think I'm still so fresh out of marriage, so I think I'm really 535 00:28:21,460 --> 00:28:23,220 enjoying not being married. Right. 536 00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:24,680 Would you get married? 537 00:28:25,130 --> 00:28:30,450 So, you know, for me it's complicated because I found out a little over a year 538 00:28:30,450 --> 00:28:35,030 ago. My ex -husband, he asked for an annulment with the Catholic Church. 539 00:28:35,570 --> 00:28:38,850 Like within the church, our marriage never existed. 540 00:28:39,490 --> 00:28:46,010 But when I got the letter from the Catholic Church, it came 541 00:28:46,010 --> 00:28:48,570 to Strack Brown. 542 00:28:49,370 --> 00:28:50,950 And Brown is my maiden name. 543 00:28:51,150 --> 00:28:53,310 I'm like, okay. I kept looking at it. 544 00:28:53,630 --> 00:28:54,630 Strack Brown. 545 00:28:55,130 --> 00:29:00,070 And so I thought, well, maybe I'll change my name back to Brown. 546 00:29:00,330 --> 00:29:02,450 I dropped my married name the day I left. 547 00:29:02,810 --> 00:29:03,810 Really? Yeah. 548 00:29:03,890 --> 00:29:06,630 Well, the truth is, I'm not a Strack. 549 00:29:07,650 --> 00:29:11,650 Well, I'm Strack, I thought. I'm not. You should be Strack. I know, but it's 550 00:29:11,650 --> 00:29:13,110 like my last little thread. 551 00:29:13,490 --> 00:29:15,470 It is, but you know what? 552 00:29:16,250 --> 00:29:17,670 You're not married to him anymore. 553 00:29:18,730 --> 00:29:21,030 I always felt that. 554 00:29:21,630 --> 00:29:23,950 I could get Christian back whenever I wanted to. 555 00:29:24,670 --> 00:29:29,830 Sometimes when we talk, I'm like, little moment, like, did I just win him back 556 00:29:29,830 --> 00:29:30,830 for a second? 557 00:29:31,930 --> 00:29:38,930 I think I realized with this annulment, he is not going to take 558 00:29:38,930 --> 00:29:39,930 me back. 559 00:29:41,350 --> 00:29:42,350 It's over. 560 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:49,500 Oh, Rachel, why do you want to make me cry? I don't want to make you cry, but I 561 00:29:49,500 --> 00:29:52,520 also want you to... It's like when I think about grandchildren, I'm like... 562 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:56,820 what? Grandma and Grandpa Strack over there are the good ones with all the 563 00:29:56,820 --> 00:29:58,000 houses all over the world. 564 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:04,320 I'm just Grandmommy Brown over here with my four dogs and probably 18 cats. 565 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:08,200 Look, 18 cats is a problem in and of itself, but that's a whole different 566 00:30:08,580 --> 00:30:09,580 I don't know. 567 00:30:10,570 --> 00:30:14,210 I know a lot of women who want to keep their married name, and sometimes it's 568 00:30:14,210 --> 00:30:18,010 status. Sometimes it's because they're not over the marriage and they want to 569 00:30:18,010 --> 00:30:21,530 hold on to it. And I'm not one of them. 570 00:30:21,850 --> 00:30:22,850 Something around is not bad. 571 00:30:23,170 --> 00:30:24,170 What's your middle name? 572 00:30:25,330 --> 00:30:26,330 Oh, no. 573 00:30:26,530 --> 00:30:28,150 What's your middle name? It's Thurman. 574 00:30:29,810 --> 00:30:30,810 Okay. 575 00:30:31,290 --> 00:30:32,290 Harder. 576 00:30:35,570 --> 00:30:36,570 Coming up. 577 00:30:36,610 --> 00:30:39,370 Do you know about your retirement account? No retirement account. 578 00:30:39,790 --> 00:30:41,050 exists, as far as I'm concerned. 579 00:30:42,770 --> 00:30:43,770 Money's not invested? 580 00:30:44,070 --> 00:30:46,050 I'm in the unknown. 581 00:30:56,930 --> 00:30:58,470 I just had a few flowers. 582 00:30:58,910 --> 00:31:02,510 Oh, thank you. Another thing we're checking off the list, we need to get 583 00:31:02,510 --> 00:31:03,510 the program. 584 00:31:08,490 --> 00:31:09,630 Hi, welcome to Orchid Republic. 585 00:31:10,090 --> 00:31:15,750 We have an appointment for her. Hi, Margarita. Hi, Margarita. Nice to meet 586 00:31:16,090 --> 00:31:20,090 We're trying to get some info and ideas for her wedding flowers. 587 00:31:20,430 --> 00:31:25,310 What is your color scheme and what are the flowers maybe that you're thinking 588 00:31:25,310 --> 00:31:26,310 about? 589 00:31:26,430 --> 00:31:28,130 I don't have a color scheme. 590 00:31:29,550 --> 00:31:35,970 I do want colorful bohemian. I like the wild, unique -looking flowers, you know, 591 00:31:35,990 --> 00:31:37,470 like artichoke. 592 00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:45,180 Alexia's ideas get me a little stressed sometimes because my wedding was more 593 00:31:45,180 --> 00:31:51,120 traditional. Black tie, at a country club, I had 12 bridesmaids, and very 594 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,560 traditional flowers like pink and white roses. 595 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:57,340 Let's just look in here for a second and see if we can find something. Ooh, look 596 00:31:57,340 --> 00:31:58,340 at that one right there. 597 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,980 That's too many purples. Too many purples, of course. 598 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:08,260 Alexia's my birth child, free spirit, so I expect this to be very eclectic. 599 00:32:08,890 --> 00:32:12,090 I actually like more of like this vibe than that vibe. Bringing some of these 600 00:32:12,090 --> 00:32:13,090 guys in. 601 00:32:13,590 --> 00:32:15,590 Look at these tiny balls. 602 00:32:15,850 --> 00:32:16,850 I love them. 603 00:32:16,890 --> 00:32:20,270 Do you guys have any like drippies? This is getting artichoke. This is perfect. 604 00:32:20,550 --> 00:32:22,930 Ooh! See what does look pretty in here? 605 00:32:23,190 --> 00:32:24,610 Do you like the more organic -y vibe? 606 00:32:24,870 --> 00:32:26,210 We're getting somewhere, guys. Woohoo! 607 00:32:26,470 --> 00:32:28,590 I love that she has her own unique style. 608 00:32:30,690 --> 00:32:35,510 Frozen. But it's just trying to get her to nail down the actual look she wants. 609 00:32:35,750 --> 00:32:37,110 So we can just put this to rest. 610 00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:41,440 This looks so pretty. Look at that. You like that? I do. This matches, like, the 611 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:43,360 bridesmaids' dresses color scheme. 612 00:32:43,740 --> 00:32:44,920 You said there was no bridesmaids. 613 00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:50,380 Mother. I'm still having, like, bridesmaids. I'm just not doing the 614 00:32:50,380 --> 00:32:51,380 not matching dresses. 615 00:32:51,580 --> 00:32:52,580 I want matching dresses. 616 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,940 You didn't say that. You said colors, not matching dresses. Yeah. That's still 617 00:32:55,940 --> 00:32:58,360 matching. Dad and I are both walking out with you? 618 00:32:58,560 --> 00:32:59,940 Yeah. Okay. Of course. 619 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:01,740 Yeah, you're going to walk me down. 620 00:33:02,020 --> 00:33:03,020 That's so crazy. 621 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:07,080 It does feel strange now to think that my daughter... 622 00:33:07,450 --> 00:33:11,110 Our daughter is getting married, and we're not together. 623 00:33:12,010 --> 00:33:16,170 I would like to take the flowers home so that Jake can give the green light. 624 00:33:16,390 --> 00:33:18,270 I always like him to have the final yes. 625 00:33:18,690 --> 00:33:22,310 When I look at Alexia and Jake getting married, I just hope that they have a 626 00:33:22,310 --> 00:33:26,730 long, happy marriage. I hope that they can always trust each other. 627 00:33:26,990 --> 00:33:32,410 I hope that neither one of them ever hurt each other. 628 00:33:38,670 --> 00:33:41,690 I hope that Jake always looks at Alexia the way he looks at her today. 629 00:33:45,610 --> 00:33:50,930 But when you look back one day at your wedding photos, as long as you look back 630 00:33:50,930 --> 00:33:55,650 and you're like, oh, that's exactly what, you know, what I wanted and, you 631 00:33:55,690 --> 00:33:56,690 that's what I wanted at the time. 632 00:33:57,450 --> 00:34:00,510 Mo and me, we were also really happy. 633 00:34:03,430 --> 00:34:06,630 So do I get scared thinking I hope one day they don't. 634 00:34:06,970 --> 00:34:09,389 go through what we're going through. Of course, I think like that. 635 00:34:10,469 --> 00:34:16,770 I'm hoping that they have both learned from Mo and me through all of this and 636 00:34:16,770 --> 00:34:23,710 love and respect each other as much, you know, 30, 40 years from now as they 637 00:34:23,710 --> 00:34:24,710 do today. 638 00:34:24,870 --> 00:34:27,889 I'm telling you, I'm going to have a very different wedding with each of your 639 00:34:27,889 --> 00:34:28,889 sisters. Yeah. 640 00:34:28,969 --> 00:34:30,110 God help me with Sophia. 641 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:40,420 Welcome to Gemma. Feed me. 642 00:34:40,739 --> 00:34:42,760 Give me pasta and tell me I'm pretty. Oh, yeah. 643 00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:43,958 We'd love that. 644 00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,380 Thank you. 645 00:34:46,780 --> 00:34:47,780 Fabulous. 646 00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:51,380 Can I get you started with some still or sparkling water? Still would be great. 647 00:34:51,460 --> 00:34:52,460 Sounds good. 648 00:34:53,699 --> 00:34:54,719 Hi, how are you? 649 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:56,120 Oh, hey, honey. How are you? 650 00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:57,980 I am good. Good, good. 651 00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:00,540 Can I get us started with something to drink over here? 652 00:35:00,780 --> 00:35:02,260 Can I have a nice tea? Yeah, absolutely. 653 00:35:02,860 --> 00:35:04,820 I'll have an Arnold Palmer, actually. You got it. Thank you. 654 00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:09,000 I met Amanda at Jennifer Tilly's party. Who's jacket is that, by the way? This 655 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:13,600 is my mom. This is my mom. I would knock you down, put you in that pool out 656 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,260 there, and take the jacket and go. Thank you. I'm taking both those things as a 657 00:35:16,260 --> 00:35:18,740 compliment. She seems interesting. She's a businesswoman. 658 00:35:19,100 --> 00:35:22,060 She's getting married. So I want to get to know her better. 659 00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:24,780 Did you ever start in, like, the corporate space? 660 00:35:25,700 --> 00:35:29,620 No. I have no formal business experience. Really? You've always been 661 00:35:29,620 --> 00:35:30,940 entrepreneur. I have a master's in counseling. 662 00:35:31,530 --> 00:35:33,910 I don't know that I had this language at the time, but I was like, let's make 663 00:35:33,910 --> 00:35:35,270 this a personal development brand. 664 00:35:35,730 --> 00:35:37,310 Like, what do I want to be about? 665 00:35:37,550 --> 00:35:41,350 So I started putting out really good content online every day. I started out 666 00:35:41,350 --> 00:35:45,950 a therapist and life coach and later a business coach. As my audience grew and 667 00:35:45,950 --> 00:35:50,170 wanted to help more people, I began to create online courses to help people 668 00:35:50,170 --> 00:35:53,570 create both the professional and personal life of their dreams. 669 00:35:53,810 --> 00:35:57,630 Oh, interesting. So then I created a digital course called Become a Life 670 00:35:57,850 --> 00:36:00,250 Oh. And then I found that I had a... 671 00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:06,840 A gift, a niche around money, but not around, like I'm not a financial 672 00:36:06,980 --> 00:36:10,640 you know, around like the energetic part of money, the mindset part, the 673 00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:12,220 psychology around it. Right. 674 00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:17,540 Most people who teach on money focus on the practical aspects of money 675 00:36:17,540 --> 00:36:22,320 exclusively. I think the practical aspects are really important, but I 676 00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:26,660 foundation is our relationship with money, which involves the psychological, 677 00:36:26,660 --> 00:36:28,060 emotional, and the energetic. 678 00:36:28,900 --> 00:36:31,940 That's really what I became known for. That's what I wrote my book on. I have a 679 00:36:31,940 --> 00:36:33,080 best -selling book called Riches. 680 00:36:33,380 --> 00:36:34,158 Oh, yeah. 681 00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:36,320 So then I became known as the money queen. 682 00:36:36,580 --> 00:36:38,840 Yes. But I create courses on all kinds of things. 683 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:40,280 Well, hello. Hi. 684 00:36:42,629 --> 00:36:47,970 You are just so gorgeous. Hi, so good to see you. Good to see you, too. Here, 685 00:36:48,010 --> 00:36:49,870 I'll take your bag. Thank you, thank you, thank you. 686 00:36:50,130 --> 00:36:51,130 I'll take her bag. 687 00:36:51,830 --> 00:36:53,810 That's not what I meant, Rory. I'll take her bag. 688 00:36:54,050 --> 00:36:57,310 So I've been thinking about you a lot since the party. I really have. Sending 689 00:36:57,310 --> 00:37:00,310 you love and good vibes every day. I'm praying you're getting some sleep. Oh, 690 00:37:00,310 --> 00:37:02,430 too. I really have. I have every day. You've been on my mind. 691 00:37:02,730 --> 00:37:05,370 Yeah. That's really very sweet. No, I mean it. 692 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:09,220 My first impression of Amanda, to be honest, I didn't know what to make of 693 00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:18,120 But now, hearing her say how she was thinking about me all weekend and prayed 694 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:23,000 for me, it's incredibly kind and sweet and caring. 695 00:37:23,669 --> 00:37:26,710 The french fries, because that's the most important thing. Yes, it is. 696 00:37:27,050 --> 00:37:28,050 Let's do the kale salad. 697 00:37:28,390 --> 00:37:31,010 It looks like there's calamari. Is calamari gluten -free? Calamari is 698 00:37:31,010 --> 00:37:33,750 -free. Well, that never happens. I don't have calamari in here. I mean. 699 00:37:34,010 --> 00:37:36,310 They have to. I have to do that. Awesome. I'll get that started. 700 00:37:37,990 --> 00:37:41,030 What did I say? My husband? My ex -husband? I don't know what to say. I 701 00:37:41,030 --> 00:37:42,030 saying estranged. 702 00:37:42,130 --> 00:37:43,530 Okay, yeah, I know. Estranged husband. 703 00:37:43,750 --> 00:37:46,990 That's your official phrase. But in any case, he's very much an alpha male, a 704 00:37:46,990 --> 00:37:49,710 businessman. He built a very big business. 705 00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:57,160 In the UK, and when the world tilted on an access in 2008, he lost his business. 706 00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:01,000 When PK and I married, we did not have a prenup. PK came into the relationship 707 00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:05,620 broke. He had lost his business, and he was really starting from scratch. 708 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,040 So there was nothing to protect. 709 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:14,300 And when we got married, the finances, he really was handling everything. 710 00:38:14,720 --> 00:38:17,840 And you had kind of delegated it out of your mind. Yes. You weren't thinking 711 00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:19,200 about how the finances worked. No. 712 00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:24,240 We had a business manager. I filed for divorce a couple of months ago. There 713 00:38:24,240 --> 00:38:27,580 wasn't, like, a handoff. There wasn't, like, an agreement. 714 00:38:27,940 --> 00:38:28,940 There was nothing. 715 00:38:29,740 --> 00:38:33,560 I just would find out that he's not going to pay this anymore. 716 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,960 I filed for divorce. 717 00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:50,640 a couple of months ago, there wasn't, like, a handoff. There wasn't, like, an 718 00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:52,320 agreement. There was nothing. 719 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:57,080 I just would find out that he's not going to pay this anymore. 720 00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:02,940 Wait, wait, wait. So you're living in the house, the family home. Yes. And 721 00:39:02,940 --> 00:39:04,620 trying to not pay the mortgage, like, for example? 722 00:39:04,940 --> 00:39:08,780 He's currently paying the mortgage. He's just randomly deciding you're on your 723 00:39:08,780 --> 00:39:12,040 own. Absolutely. He's thinking she's making X. 724 00:39:12,420 --> 00:39:13,420 No. 725 00:39:14,500 --> 00:39:18,440 For the last 14 years, PK's been paying the lion's share of our family 726 00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:22,160 outgoings. When we separated, he said that the finances would stay the same. 727 00:39:22,580 --> 00:39:27,060 She's now having more financial responsibility than in the past. 728 00:39:27,260 --> 00:39:28,260 Right, 729 00:39:28,620 --> 00:39:30,060 but it hasn't been mutually decided upon. 730 00:39:30,300 --> 00:39:34,840 No. A month later, I got an email saying that he decided he's no longer going to 731 00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:35,519 do that. 732 00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:39,620 And I was like, how can you change this all of a sudden? And his answer was, I 733 00:39:39,620 --> 00:39:41,040 only agreed to that for one month. 734 00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:46,720 For you to have a fair position in mediation, you have to know what you're 735 00:39:46,720 --> 00:39:48,680 working with. Do you know about your retirement account? 736 00:39:48,900 --> 00:39:51,700 No retirement account exists as far as I'm concerned. 737 00:39:53,340 --> 00:39:54,940 And money's not invested? 738 00:39:55,300 --> 00:40:00,820 I have yet to discover everything, and I can tell you I'm in the unknown. 739 00:40:01,540 --> 00:40:06,800 When Peter died, I was left with the financial responsibility of raising Leo 740 00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:07,759 my own. 741 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:11,700 Dorit is in a similar position. She needs to understand where the money is. 742 00:40:11,950 --> 00:40:14,810 I'm hoping, I'm saying that there's been money invested. Like these are things 743 00:40:14,810 --> 00:40:16,150 that people live off of. 744 00:40:16,670 --> 00:40:18,010 How do you get here? 745 00:40:18,250 --> 00:40:23,710 Like you have to turn a blind eye to your bank account for a long time to be 746 00:40:23,710 --> 00:40:26,270 a state where you have no idea if you have retirement. 747 00:40:26,550 --> 00:40:29,990 I mean, this is like basic information every woman should know about their 748 00:40:29,990 --> 00:40:30,990 financial reality. 749 00:40:31,690 --> 00:40:34,130 My husband's a complex person. 750 00:40:34,490 --> 00:40:38,750 He's complex. He's not a bad guy, like a terrible bad guy, vicious. 751 00:40:39,940 --> 00:40:41,640 Does he have some bad behavior? 752 00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:47,640 Absolutely. And then you throw drinking into the mix, and that, for someone of 753 00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:50,200 his character, it gets even more complicated. 754 00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:54,160 Right. Not only that, but my name is on everything. 755 00:40:56,060 --> 00:40:59,620 When I found out our house was in pre -foreclosure, I wasn't just worried 756 00:40:59,620 --> 00:41:00,620 losing the house. 757 00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:05,220 The house is in my name. So if he can't stop paying for something or doesn't 758 00:41:05,220 --> 00:41:08,360 make payments, it's me that suffers the consequences. 759 00:41:10,220 --> 00:41:13,560 I can't do anything right now. My hands are tied behind my back. So you need the 760 00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:17,320 clean break to start building everything back up. Exactly. What can Dorit do, 761 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:21,440 like, proactively, knowing, like, all of these unknowns? 762 00:41:21,660 --> 00:41:25,040 Is there anything that she can proactively do to protect herself? 763 00:41:25,820 --> 00:41:27,160 or to, like, help the situation. 764 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:30,880 I think you have to decide what you want, what you're creating, and, like, 765 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:33,580 you're going to be. Like, I know that's, like, a big overarching question, but 766 00:41:33,580 --> 00:41:36,080 who do you want to be as a provider? Who do you want to be as a woman who earns? 767 00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:38,720 Who do you want to be as a woman who has been screwed her and now she has to 768 00:41:38,720 --> 00:41:42,220 fill in the gaps? Like, who are you going to be no matter what he does? 769 00:41:42,300 --> 00:41:44,140 You know what I'm saying? Totally. Because you're going to have to keep 770 00:41:44,140 --> 00:41:46,260 mind right to go through this battle with this man. Oh, yeah. 771 00:41:47,340 --> 00:41:49,800 What is this frou -frou mess we're talking about? 772 00:41:50,460 --> 00:41:52,740 I was looking for one plus one equals two. 773 00:41:53,780 --> 00:41:57,420 Intention. What kind of provider does she want to be? What does that even 774 00:41:57,780 --> 00:41:59,780 This is not financial advice. 775 00:42:00,460 --> 00:42:05,440 The math ain't math. The road we're going, there are no winners. It is going 776 00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:08,320 get very, very ugly. 777 00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:15,760 Next on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. 778 00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:17,580 Erica said, boring. 779 00:42:17,780 --> 00:42:21,660 I got her in that moment. Don't think for two seconds that you got her in that 780 00:42:21,660 --> 00:42:22,660 moment. 781 00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:26,300 Let's go now. Here we come. 782 00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:27,880 Let's go, baby. 783 00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:30,780 This is hot girl summer, Rachel. See? I don't know if I like it. 784 00:42:31,240 --> 00:42:33,980 What? Not the fascinisa with no clothes. 785 00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:38,600 Did you just have a picture of Eric in the tabloids with that guy? Did he 786 00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:39,660 approach you?